So, about the only thing left on those top five stressors lists that hasn't happened to me is divorce/separation. And the separation part will happen, just not the way that implies.
Remember back in the wintertime when the hub had an offer from Atlanta that got really, really messy? We thought we were moving, and then suddenly, not?
All of the ugly knots have been untied, and they want him to start on Sept. 1. He wants to accept.
This is flocked because it mentions work, of course.
IwillnotcollapseIwillnotcollapseIwillnot
ThisisgoodnewsThisisgoodnewsThisisgoodne
::quietly freaks out and generally feels unable to cope::
Remember back in the wintertime when the hub had an offer from Atlanta that got really, really messy? We thought we were moving, and then suddenly, not?
All of the ugly knots have been untied, and they want him to start on Sept. 1. He wants to accept.
This is flocked because it mentions work, of course.
IwillnotcollapseIwillnotcollapseIwillnot
ThisisgoodnewsThisisgoodnewsThisisgoodne
::quietly freaks out and generally feels unable to cope::
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(((Hugs)))
So, would this mean living apart for a bit? Would you eventually join him there?
Good news is good! You deserve it. I'm just sorry that it's coming with a sidecar of stress.
It *is* good, just dealing with it will be HARD.
Will you be moving down here eventually? And if he needs any Atlanta info, definitely feel free to ask.
I'm sure we'll need your expertise, no doubt about it. At the very least, you can fill us in on the school districts!
It will be nice to be in a city again.
[hugs hugs hugs hugs] May this be a blessing, really.
It will be, at some point.
Breathing. Yes, that's important, isn't it. How is it that we forget something so simple??
That which does not kill us...
Good news!
I know how stressful moving can be, but if he wants to accept, it must be a promotion. And, it's Atlanta. Lots to do in the Atlanta metro area :-)
::hugs::
It *will* be okay. You're right.
Is hypoventilate just another way of saying suffocate? I find myself doing this non-breathe thing more than fast-fast...
Hugs, deep breath and it's going to work out brilliantly.
NEAT.
It will, I know you're right. It's just hard to see right now.
*hugs*
*rubs back*
Yes. You're right, it is.
Thank you, dear.
Oh, I am sooo going to have to go to the Moonlight and Magnolias conference in Atlanta so I can get together with my LJ friends from the area.
And I hadn't thought of Atlanta being big enough to draw folks from other places, but you're right! Another reason it's a Good Thing.
Sometimes life just seems to want to test us, eh?
Yes, a test. Or a few. Thank you for reminding me, too. That's a perspective on it that could be very useful in the next few weeks...